Sunday, July 26, 2009

Friendship Anniversary?

IT's surely not bad to atleast think about the day YOU first met. Beware - here i am talking about to celebrate, which has some incentive attached! Some folks may boo about this idea, but at the same time, some might appreciate.

The friendship anniversary is certaily a great occasion. It gives pleasure to think about the day when you first befriended someone and ponder over the inhibitions resisting you in doing so and how you countered them with finesse accost and confidence. It will be worthwhile to evaluate how your friendship proceeded over the days, had the bond become stronger than you first thought or there is work needed to tighten the screws from both sides. This not only will help you better confront the idiosyncrasies of your social behaviour, but will also help analyse the subtleties of sharing a social connection.
Alas! this is a modern world with influences from west trying to contaminate the true essence of friendship. Immortal sayings like a friend in need is a friend indeed, have not lost from the minds of young generation, rather, the way they are interpreted and applied has change dramatically.

There has to be methodical approach to determine why youths have the propensity to befriend someone. Now a days, chatting, social networking sites have been the finest mechanisms to get this done, and ppl dont feel shy when they are remarked as 'intexticated'. I don't see an issue with this unless it is done to find a true friend and not many untrue friends. People wait for friday to end, so that they can start their venture into the inevitable journey for finding a fri-end :P. But since you were successful in doing so, why not celebrate the completeness of one year of your success, no matter you now realize that it was not worth, but considering the points mentioned above it would surely call for remembrance atleast!

Let's go back and try to contemplate upon the ecstasies when you try to befriend someone of opposite sex. Remember it is always a two way sword, a push from one side will have an effect on the other and viceversa. So all you have to apply is slightest effort in influencing your partner, getting to know his/her desires and tastes. If you are 100% in achieving this, no matter what happens, you'll ultimately get it! But this is not all, this has to be continued till the time it transfers to an eternal bond which ironically will can get broken by a mere breeze of infidelity...!

hope this sounds fresh and healthy to my readers at the same time appearing cryptic too .. :P

signing off!
Hershit.

1 comment:

ankur said...

nice read .. well articulated .. though only one question for u dude .. how can you know the exact day of begining of friendship? it is a relation which starts with a acquintance .. then you become friends you never know.. and then gud friends .. you never know when it begins and how it proceeds atleast for me it acts this way :)